When a woman gets CLEAR she DECIDES.
And when a woman decides, she has the power to move a fucking mountain.
This is a powerful exercise to do if you need clarity in determing where you are on your journey, how far you are from your destinantion and what you need to be doing, reading, being, keeping and eliminating.
Let it tell you where you are at in your journey so you can get crystal clear about your nexts steps forward.
Use this blog as your first trial, if this piece of writing aligns with you stick around,
If not, delete unfollow and move on.
Yep, I am urging you to move on from what is going to be a pain in your arse and your inbox if you’re not in a position to hear it and apply it.
Why waste time?
Then apply this cutthroat spring cleaning attitude to other areas of life and be transparent about who you are, what you like, who you want to become, what needs to change, what doesn’t. who you want to be in a relationship with, what mission you’re on, what job you wish for, the money you want to earn, the spiritual teachings that empower you, what you like, what you prefer to read, hear and talk about and let this be the is the first baby step towards more empowerment.
So without further ado, I present you my very bold, badass and very spritual assessment.
Put the kettle on, let’s get you crystal clear xoxo
1. '𝐃𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐬𝐥𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫'
You’re sleeping life off and you don't want to wake up.
You’re rejecting help, you’re dicking around and you are NOT learning.
You are stuck in your own story and drainage and loving it.
You walk back and forth blindfolded through life. It is also referred to as 'To me' stage or things done to me or the Victim/wounded stage. Everything is happening to you and you are always the victim.
2. '𝐇𝐚𝐥𝐟 𝐀𝐬𝐥𝐞𝐞𝐩-𝐇𝐚𝐥𝐟 𝐀𝐰𝐚𝐤𝐞'
You got your sleep patch on, slumber on your eyes but you've heard the alarm. This is the 'should I' or ‘mmmm maybe’ stage but you are still in bed indulging in stories and not intending to get out of warmth and comfort. You hear the alarm and you snooze it. Life is teaching you, you still don’t get it and still asking why.
3. '𝐖𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐮𝐩'
The alarm is on and it is not within arm's reach so you got no choice but to get up. you realise your own shit and your own choices, You are only just starting to understand blame and responsibility, the blind fold is off but you are still sat on the bed, repeating dead ends in your head but you still have no clue.
'By me' stage. I choose, I reap, I am responsible, oh shit I have a lot of shit!
It's when you figure out that the mind can make you or break you and there are 2 sides of your ego - one that tells you to go in the shower so you are presentable and the other that tells you to stay in bed in case a car runs you over.
You are in charge of setting your alarm on loud!
Resourceful and responsible but you're not showered yet.
This is when you know you need to do something about your shit.
It's the 'By me' stage where you know that your choices have brought you here and you are fully responsible for your shit.
You are half way from your bed (comfort) to the door handle (willingness) but just need a little propelling forward.
5. '𝐅𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐀𝐰𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐝'
Your eyes are wide open.
You are up, showered, ready with your hand on the door handle, door open and you are stepping out.
You want growth as you are tired of wasting time.
You are ready to do the work consistently.
You're out of that door and ready to slay those big arsed shit dragons and chains that have kept you handcuffed.
The 2nd part of 'By me' stage.
Life has hit you on your head and literally rolled you out of bed.
It tapped you on your touche and sent you off to do the work.
You are READY WITH NO RESISTANCE of time, money, excuses and bullshit to do whatever it takes to accelerate your way forward.
Before I go into this, there is a 𝐝𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐭𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐞𝐧𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐝.
I say dangerous because I experienced it. You are doing a lot of spiritual work through so called 'enlightened masters' or 'gurus' and you are not being taught how to ground yourself and seal at the end of each spiritual ritual.
Your energy is wide open and there is a very clumsy 'love and light' bullshit stage where you are starting to think you are Buddha himself.
Experimenting and allowing to be lead.
Your chakras are not aligned and you are only a guinae pig.
This can be deadly indeed.
I have known and heard stories of Spiritual rape and manipulation causing immense and very deep trauma to the deeper layers.
It's like deep cleaning the house, going into every corner making sure the cobwebs are removed and its all shiny but then forgetting to shut the door behind you when you leave, inviting any sort of unwanted, 'dirt' 'spirit' 'robbery'.
This can be the cause and lead you to a very Dark form of Depression, Suicide, Energy Attacks and Insanity.
Now to the last stage '𝐄𝐧𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐝'
This is real authentic honest Teacher/Guru stage and you can truly guide another to walk the walk. You have stepped into your own excellence and the highest version of yourself. You can take someone from 'Unbecoming to Becoming'. Your 3rd eye is opened and all Chakras aligned.
Can you see clearly?
Have you assessed honestly?
Where are you at?
Let me assist you further…..
If you are at stage 1 and 2, end this relationship right now.
Yep, I’m telling you to unsubscribe from my newsletter, unfollow me on fb…the lot.
It’s a decision - yes I like or No I don’t like this
So do it, it will release you from reading posts, blogs or emails that are a big pain in your arse.
This is powerful as you will exercise your ‘decision' muscle’
If you are in stages 3 or 6 you can stay and continue reading my woman and spirituality journey to either wake you up further or continue to evolve you.
If you are in stages 4+5, up showered, dressed and ready to go but you are still very foggy about your lane, then you know that I am your kinda woman who’s gonna call you on your shit and get you to your next stage.
You see, I’ve done the long winded journey and I know the road blocks, the short cuts that lead to dead ends and the ones that get you a free pass to shit land. I also know who is going to take the journey the easy way or the ‘victim, I can’t do this way’.
Get in touch with me on a more solid level as I can help you get on your lane and accelerate your way forward.
You will meet me on the other end of the door, get absolutely clear about your destination on your map and shown the smoothest, safest and speediest way to get there.